Wednesday, April 8, 2015

Finding neverland

En-route
Sitting on the bus on the way to the airport, I glance out the window in front of me… the last few hours of sunshine spreads in a golden wave across the lush green slopes of the English countryside. My heart fluctuates between that satisfied feeling deep in my soul and the nervousness of knowing that I’ve got to change pace and restrain that inner child that’s been roaming free for the last few days…

My mind’s been blown, literally and metaphorically considering my brain cells have definitely been significantly reduced… but aside from the self-medication and rather foggy head, my hearts feels expansive (did you know your heart’s electric field is 60 times the magnitude than that of your brain.. no wonder feelings take so much priority in our lives…) It’s been nurtured with the grooves, connections and atmosphere of a 3 day regression session… An engagement party of sorts where everyone commits to liberating their soul in unison as we reach a state of oneness with a uni-verse.
Let’s rewind a little… the fast paced and unsurprisingly stressful journey to the station on the way to the party left us with 2 minutes to spare, racing up the stairs with the regular panic of thinking we were going to miss our train yet again, but as always (touch wood) we made it in the nick of time. Ciders at the ready and a red face in no time, we broke the barrier of 'no eye-contact on a train' and made new friends with the guy in the seat next to us, as we wrote L’s hippie activism sign for ‘Woodstock day’ that read ‘Saving the bees gives me a buzz’ – it didn’t actually get used but was a conversation starter if anything.
Down the rabbit hole
Sexy garden party
So we arrived at the train station and after a failed attempt at trying to haggle a taxi driver down to get to the stately home in the middle of the countryside, we wondered away to try to get a bus, hoping he’d call back for us… but he didn’t. So with no idea where to go, we sheepishly sauntered over to agree on the original set price… we picked up the essentials and arrived at the house of fun (Listen: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RIacAO4Ttyk)

Choose your face ;)
The warm glow of fairy lights greeted us, accompanied by the faint sounds of jazzy beats as 70 +people dressed in crazy outfits (accompanied by fluorescent fro’s and straggly bits of barbie hair) emerged from all directions, embracing old and new faces alike. We found our rooms, got into costumes and began the shenanigans – we wondered in awe around the fantastical maze … from the chapel rave to the giant games room filled with snooker tables, giant cross-4 and chess boards, a trampoline, space hoppers and so much more …
Mags and co.
Aaaand the party kicked off .. bleh bang boombamdizzledoo we moved to them funky funky beats and got U’s ‘good vibrations goin on’ … twirling and twisting in all sorts of weird and wonderful ways. Listening to hilarious stories about how J got spat on in tesco by a random woman (for buying baby props for his outfit) or chanting mantras of Dave eating his vitamins ;) …
Emergency bingoo
Time seemed irrelevant as everyone went with the rhythm of their own constitution. The weather forecast had been one of two extremes, so it was either bikini weather or tornado’s … but the vibes caught on and were glorious as the sun shined and we all lay together on the grass, under trees of cherry blossom jamming away.
The forfeits for those that hadn’t completed their tasks pre-party, involved drinking a shot and racing down a hill against someone on a space hopper :p and then the shift embraced a bit of funk and soul that filled the space and got the grooving going. I swam doggy paddle in circles in the pool, watching with dilated pupils the steam come off the water as it collided with the cold air above it… C. continued to paddle about, solo and nude with a baby doll being thrown around and caressed by each of us in turn… I soon joined in on the dread shared by the rest of the pool dwellers regarding getting out of the water and into the cold, cold air. But it had to be done! So towels at the ready, and the next set of clothes…
Forfeits
The themes for each night were ‘the carnival of colours’, ‘heaven and hell’ and 'Woodstock'. On the Heaven and hell evening, as I raved in the cornered off ‘hell section’ in the chapel dressed as Maggie thatcher, there seemed to be less of a willingness to cross over to the dark side and there was soon a sad shift in numbers as people wiggled their way to heaven… my partner in crime who was dressed as a giant baby stuck close by, at least magz still has some supporters… as I danced in front of ‘jihadi john’ the DJ, I couldn’t help but chuckle at the irony of the situation..
Woodstock was wonderful as everyone’s inner hippie emerged. Flowers, fumes, sunnies, hippie pants and a kaleidoscope of colours as we all bonded, roamed and soaked in some delicious vitamin D. Later on came games of emergency bingo, secret disco rooms, mystic tents, hypothecary and moustache stalls, face paint, drawing booths, photo booths and powerful performances. The chapel was again transformed, thanks to the amazing organisation committee and we raved all night spinning to colourful disco balls, reading tarot cards and having spangly wangly conversations and musical jams.
The games room
It was a time for our hearts to be free, for judgments, worries and conformity to be left with reality. We slept at different times in one of many beds and awoke to more sexy kitchen, chapel, karaoke and pool parties, you just had to follow the chants to find out where to go. Surprise pass the parcel at 4am in the dining room was my favourite… techno tunes as we manically passed the parcel along revealing the naughty treats beneath each layer. And then finally, as though someone had clicked their fingers, the clock began to tick again and the party came to a close as a very delirious clean up took priority between 70+ people and the home slowly returned to its normal state.
Although I’m a newcomer, the attachments formed when you create so many bonds is always hard to leave – so we decided not to :p … and headed to the nearest beach to sink into sand dunes with the strumming of guitar and the melody of R and U singing Hare Krishna mantras. Flower fumes, luscombe ice cream and cheesy chips – we covered up from the sea breeze and sat together to enjoy what was soon beginning to feel like summer (with evidence of red noses to take home with us) …

Parting hugs, future promises and back in the car we went, stealing a few souls with us to Bristol for the night to indulge in Indian, feel clean again and snuggle into comfortable duvets with a mellow mix to sooth us to sleep.
With the pressure of 
our western lifestyles, a manic form of liberation is essential too – getting weird, getting down and acting somewhat like a clown (or dressed like one) you feed that aspect of your spirit that needs to have fun and not always take life too seriously (even though it’s easy to forget that.)

Beach Jams 

Words cant describe the magical event that’s appropriate to call the best party of the year full of love, respect and trust (and probably one of the coolest chapel raves on easter sunday!) so thank you to the wonderfully organised Captain and team for making it such a special occasion, my appreciation is dear.
Delirium describes my present state as I sit on an aeroplane en-route to Malaysia for the next adventure, to recuperate my senses, connect to my family and lovers and feel the steamy heat on my face as I step out of the aeroplane and into my tropical home for a eggstatic Easter ;).




Song of the day
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E2VCwBzGdPM